Virgins, Are all Virgins, pure?
Are All Virgins, pure? who does care right? nowadays only few women preserves their virginity, they basically see no importance anymore in keeping it for long and for them “nobody dies a virgin, life fuck us all“ it’s like they got nothing to lose, but rather they have more to gain with just a little bleed. As the average number of virgins continue to decline, being no virgin become socially accepted now. In our status quo virgin is out, if you’re virgin till your late twenties you’ll be seen as a middle ages woman who didn’t come from this time age or they might think that there’s something wrong with you. On other hand, women who wanted to be noticed and to be special nor wanted to separate themselves from the norms, would boastfully claim to be virgins, but how true is that? Is virginity is just a state of mind? or most of the time just a word of mouth and people keeps on killing the true essence of it everyday. Let’s digest the real meaning of being virgins, by defining first the term virgin, What is Virginity, we all know that it’s a state of being pure, unsullied, chaste and untouched. It is derived from the Latin virgo, which means “sexually inexperienced woman”. Are all Virgins, Pure?. How much we can consider a woman, virgin. Let’s not overlook the real meaning of it, it’s not just because the woman/girl hasn’t broke her hymen you’ll still consider her as virgin, it’s a misconception that would be misleading to the fact. This should not be our basis here, I totally disagree with this standard, this is disgusting and it’s a fraud, for me virgin means pure, untouched, so if the girl had kissed a guy it simply states then that she ain’t virgin anymore it doesn’t matter what kind of kissing it is, as long as there’s kissing, she has been touched already.Virgin is also a sexually inexperienced woman meaning she doesn’t have any experience in sex, if she performed oral and anal, don’t tell me she will still fall to virgin class just because she hadn’t bleed yet for she used another form of penetration? What a blatant lie? What an insult? it’s so shameful and humiliating for the “real virgins” like me this beliefs is such a thrash if we will stick to this one. Do you want to stay fool all the time? Hey wake up, don’t let someone screw you up by this phrase ” I’m virgin “. Just remember that “whore was a virgin once too” Hehe. Next time when you hear about this cliché just get her fact straight, How virgin are you? mostly this type of woman just wanted to get some attention, she is using this term “virgin” to put herself in a higher level, so that she would stand out from the rest, or she just wanted to be talked about, that’s why she is claiming her lie as a fact, but I cannot alter the true meaning of being a real virgin, for me virgin means totally being pure, well if the world would be creepy ignorant enough to welcome those who had kissed, had done oral or anal sex under virgin category, If this will be the case then I can’t tolerate to seen as one with this junk and bs, this is very hurting and degrading to my morals. It’s senseless and pointless to discuss this matter because no one cares anymore. But no matter what I cannot just shut up and close my eyes and agree to their wrong perception. Right now, I’m no longer proud to be a virgin because this term went out to be cheesy and it doesn’t suit me, I cannot put down my moral of being 100 % pure, therefore I would just let that damn term to be use and abuse by those liars that love to mislead and deceived others, I don’t want to belong to their silly crap. For today, real virgin is fading out and being virgin is a just a lie now a days, sooner or later it will totally die out… With my head held up high, I rather not seen as Virgin, with flaws and blotches, because I’m more than a Virgin, I’m pure!
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Well, the closest contact I’ve ever had with a boy is that time when I sat on my friend’s lap at lunch time. We were all together at the cafeteria but there were no sits anymore so he told me to sit on his leg. It wasn’t very comfortable, tough
I’ve never been kissed (lips or cheek), and, evidently, never had sexual experiences and I’m not even interested in boys, yet. I’m 15.
And I agree that those who have performed oral or anal sex are not virgins anymore, because even when it didn’t involve intercourse, it’s still sex.
I want to save it for my husband (if I ever get married).
In the other side, I don’t think sex is something that will make u dirty, it’s fine if u do it with the right person and don’t go around just sleeping with everything that walks 😛
Some of my classmates let the older boys touch their bodies like if they were on a night club or something and all I can ask myself is: Don’t the feel uncomfortable about being touched that way? and why aren’t their parents aware of that? It’s pretty gross, actually. I can’t imagine what they’ll be like when they’re 20…
Hi Charbelyy Imho Those are admirable traits and qualities a woman should have which is already obsolete these days. Well, keep it up.
Jeah sex is not dirty, If you’re going to do it with the one you love, your husband. I agree girlss are rly misbehaving now, mostly end up wasted, used up. sadly it’s their personal choice. Unsolicited advice can be offered, it’s up to them to take it or leave it. if they dun take, that’s the bottom of it, cuz we have no right to reinforce it.
Jello
I totally get you, sure if someone done oral/anal calling herself a virgin is bluffing.
but tell me if u may, what’s the “pure” word to do in our modern world? if “pure” is someone who has not been engaged in a sexually/passionate action – so being passionate is being dirty? as you write about sex, love and erotica, do you feel it’s contaminated/dirty/not pure?
oh you rly don’t get the post, what I’m talking bout here is, those ppl esp those girls who wanted to come clean who’s sooo pretentious claiming herself to be a “virgin” while she had been touched alr, sexually and passionately touched, like this fgirl I knew pretending to look clean just to caught man’s attention and just to look special, after all she kissed random guys, sitting on guys lap while she is running her thumb over those guys skin, sexually stimulating those guys, another is lying on the floor while the guy is on top of her kissing each other as the guy do pull her skirt, those falls into sexual act, it’s not a a kiss that you gave to your dad, mom, your siblings or your friend.
Another is, does that mean being a “virgin” is not having lil bleed, that’s should not be our basis. What if the girl let the guy pet her chest or use anal/third hole or oral? does that mean she didn’t get bleed she is still a virgin, whattah f*lie right?
Oh sadly I didn’t feel that, my mind is just open now to talk bout this since I am a healthcare provider I know this, and I will never never feel filthy here because I never ever been touched, no single guy had ever touched me and play with my body…oh I’m not cheapie just to let u know. if i will give myself , that man will be the first and the last man in my life.